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Women: Does cumming in a girl make her more attached to you / make the sex better?My gf (who is my 1st sex partner) is on the pill, and since we started having sex she never wanted to use a condom, and in the beginning I wasn't crazy about this and I would pull out everytime. My gf was always saying she wants me to cum in her, and eventually after a while I started cumming in her and have been ever since.
Does cumming in a girl make her more attached to you? Does cum inside a girl actually have a psychological affect on her? I've heard that studies show that Semen can improve moods in women, but im not sure if thats a myth or not...
Can I get some feedback, preferably from a woman's point of view
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I've never heard of said studies, but one thing I know for sure is that you guys should be wearing a condom. Even when taken properly, pills aren't 100% contraceptive, but around 99%, which means she could get pregnant. Not to mention that you can transmit STDs to one another; even under the best scenario, where none of you is a cheater and she didn't bring anything from a previous relationship, just so you know, you can catch a STD's through non sexual means.
If you use condoms alone, you are 20 times more likely to get pregnant than using the pill alone. (0.1% chance with the pill vs 2.0% chance with condoms during one year of sex). That's science. And the science does not support all the condom nazi's out there.
@7the7man7 yup, that's why you should take the pill AND wear a condom. This isn't being a nazi, it's being responsible.
Good questions Anonymous. First things first: safe sex is always a wise choice. Nothing can harsh your love glow like a baby you aren't ready for or an STI. But, yes, having sex with no condom can increase some of the pleasure so you typically want to be in a safe, long-term relationship before riding bareback, if you catch my drift. That said, I can't respond from a female perspective but there are various couples councellors and sexologists who might suggest that the act of sex, if not the body fluids and chemicals shared, can in fact create a stronger bond in a partnership. It would seem, however, that it's the shared pleasurable experience that brings you closer more than the specific act of ejaculating in its own right. However, a case can be made that once you share your DNA with a woman, there may be chemical responses that leads to more bonding on her end. But you'll have to get a scientist to back that up. I suggest reading some Mary Roach. Her book BONK is great and covers all manner of wonderful sex facts. One thing is certain for both men and women: orgasms relieve stress, alleviate depression and yes, help all couples bond. Long story short: safe, loving sex does improve her mood. And yours too.Hope this helps.
Well, generally speaking, if you were to cum inside a girl, it would suggest you were in a more serious relationship -- since that increases the chance of pregnancy and also other risks. But you mention your girlfriend is on the pill. I think emotionally, it suggests trust and that is a part of intimacy -- on both parts. But it can also make you more attached to her, as well - a lot of the orgasm and physical response is a chemical reaction. Remove the sheath and make the whole process more intimate, more primal, and yes, it's going to be a greater connection. Still, I say wear condoms. Even with the pill, nothing is 100% effective, and unless you are ready to get REALLY attached to her (say, be her baby daddy)...you can't be too careful.
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@alywalanskyI would relish the opportunity to explode inside of you.
I'm female and OMG I so love when generally speaking my husband comes inside of me, however I'm now divorced, and trying to abstain, but anyway it's amazing really hits nerves and get me so worked up.
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In my case when my partner has the urge to 'do not pull out' feels so intimate and it makes me feel that he enjoyed himself so much that he doesn't care if we make a baby because we are in that phase of our relationship where if it comes, it comes. My psychologist told me once that it also has to do with how we 'chose our mate for reproduction'. When a girl or guy feels comfortable enough to leave it to chance (with the pleasure of cumming inside) it can also mean they naturally are ok to reproduce with that person. Of course, this is in very intimate and close relationships. Many many people just do it 'cos it turns them on and they don't even think the comsecuences. I think myself people like it because it makes them feel more accepted to feel they are 'good reproduction material' in a perhaps unconscious way (nothing to back it up, it is just my own thought)
If I came inside her can she get pregnant
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@alexobed22It depends ... On her cycle and her fertility. Even if you don't come inside of her and you pull out, pre cum is always a risk and sperm can last up to a few days. Don't do it unless you are in a committed relationship and if you can't deal with the potential chance of being a father, just wear a condom. You can always suggest she takes plan B just I case the next day. Plan b is not suppose to be used as regular birth contork and is costly around 50 bucks.
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From experience women naturally want their man to cum inside of them. I have had many girls allow me to penetrate them without a condom and finish inside of them and they clearly enjoy the moment when I cum inside of them.
Okay one if your in a serious relationship which it sounds like you are then from personal experience yes it feels good to be cummed in, like me and my ex boyfriend I was on the pill and was not scared of contracting STD's and did not worry to much about becoming pregnant. When your in the heat of the moment as a female it's one sexy and feels physically good, warm cum turns me on so much and also that security and trust of being able to cum in me
Just bust in your girl if she's on the pill. You'll like it and She will love the feeling when you nut in her. Dont even worry about an std. If she's clean dive in raw.
All girls a diffrent, but for me personaly its when you get the best orgasim, i can climax a couple of times during sex amd its great.... but as soon as he comes inside me, its like some of chemical reaction' and its an orgasim on a diffrent level pysicaly and mentaly. For me their is no better feeling than when your man unloads in you. At times when he has to wear a condom (we do natural family planing) i can be left feeling really horny despite still reaching climax multible times with the condom. Its dificult for me to not just rip the condom off during those days. So yeah for some women its a huge turn on, other woman cant even tell if their man comes at all, they feel no diffrent down there at all when he comes
Okay. I am currently involved with a man that I love very much. It took a while for me to decide to be, however because he is an ex from a year ago. We ere together for a year before it ended. I was always so in love with him and had an insane mental, emotional, physical and sexual attraction to him. In the beginning of us trying again, I was very withdrawn and guarded. Really on my P's and Q's. But one night, during sex, he asked if he could cum inside me. At first I said "no", but changed my mind in no time. When he did, I was so turned on, I orgasmed twice, back to back. And for the rest of that weekend, I was all over him. I wanted non-stop sex and I was overwhelmed with love. I couldn't take my hands off of him. The average person would not describe him as a buff, Native American prince. He's not rich. He's just him... But to me, he is the sexiest thing I have ever seen. I could not figure out why I went so wild for him out of nowhere. But I have my suspicions that this is the culprit.
I've been dating my girl four one year now I got her into letting me cum in her but is it good for her or bad
I always feel closer to a guy (whether he's a boyfriend, or a one night stand) if he cums inside me. It's like "having sex" vs "going all the way" for me. If a guy shoots, and I can feel it inside, that's an incredible turn-on. I think most guys love it too. But for them I think it's more of a manly conquest sort of thing ... it's like if they "lay" you great, but if they leave their load inside you it's like they "owned you" (even if it was for just 15 minutes). Heather S
I dislike condoms to the point that I've declined sex with some beautiful girls because they wanted me to wear one, strictly for contraception. But I loath them to the point I would rather go without. I love being inside my girl as well as doing many other things to her constantly, kissing her lips, working her clit & alround her **** with my tongue & fingers and getting her off to a point that she is so relaxed she doesn't care what I do to her then when she is ready for more penile pleasure play inside her on top of me until she explodes.
I love it when even the quite ones go out of their heads and nearly bring the roof down or when I'm on top and they get their feet & hold my legs around the calf muscles the pain is terrible because they cum so hard for so long they nearly break my bloody legs then when I cum inside them they push so hard up into me & cum again even stronger its an unbelievable scenario even married women go off the same way, but it's not half as good with condom on.
When a 33 year old married woman holds you so tight whilst on top of you and tells you she loves ****ing you, you're doing something right.......But not with a raincoat on.
I would like to know too.
Every time my boyfriend cums inside me it makes me feel very close to him.It is also a very personal and loving thing to do in a committed relationship.It also makes me very horny just thinking about him wanting to share his juices with me.He loves it when I cum allover his penis when he is inside me.So why not allow him to shoot his load inside me.We do share everything.I love him for that.
Yeha my gf loves when I cum inside she says it’s warm and thinks it’s hot asf when it drips down her leg.. plus to me raw is way better than using a party hat
Everything every woman on here is saying, is true.
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